Oral sex for some people is the most amazing and pleasurable aspect of sex. It would be hard to get something so pleasurable wrong, but there are ways to improve your oral sex ability to make it even more intense.

Pleasing your man: All men will tell you that there isn't any such thing as a bad blow job. It is very arousing for men to receive oral sex and a woman who really enjoys pleasing her man in this way are incredibly arousing for your man. So try to relax and enjoy yourself. If you can, try to imagine you are holding your favorite ice cream on a steaming hot summers day, instead of his penis. Imagine how you would fervently lick and suck that ice cream. You might decide to slow down and enjoy every second of it, or you might like to demolish it as fast as possible. Or a combination of both? Imagine the sounds you might make, the faces you might pull. That's what your man wants to see. If you can do this, you will blow your man's mind.

As with everything sexual, it is always a good idea to start off slowly when starting oral sex if you are unsure how to proceed in a way that you are sure your partner will enjoy. You should think in terms of making love to your man's genitals by not only taking his penis into your mouth but also gently butterfly kissing along the full length of it, caressing his scrotum with your hands, or moving both hands up and down along the shaft to the rhythm of the sucking. This simulates the thrusting motion experienced by men during intercourse. If you are enjoying pleasing your partner with oral sex then let him know by making little sounds of pleasure while you are sucking his penis. The gentle vibrations caused by this noise is felt on the penis and can accentuate the pleasure for him.

Pleasing your woman: A woman's clitoris is the place to go for giving extreme oral pleasure. The clitoris is engorged with thousands of nerve endings and is very sensitive to the touch. But don't jump straight to her clitoris and start munching on it. You're likely to turn her off rather than turn her on.

Use your tongue and lips gently on her clitoris, even using gentle breath can be felt and is arousing. Later, when she becomes more aroused the clitoris will increase in size. At this point you should begin gently kissing and sucking the clitoris between your lips. Try to slowly build a rhythm without harsh, sudden movements. You might discover that as she becomes more aroused that she starts to grind slowly. This is an excellent indication of the kind of tempo she wants you to go.

Although the clitoris should be the main focus point when giving oral sex to your woman, this doesn't mean you shouldn't pay attention to other areas. Use your hands creatively, moving them around her hips and stomach area. You might also want to insert a finger into her vagina while pleasuring her with your tongue. Some women aren't keen on this while it will drive others wild. Just try it and see. You should also give some attention to her labia and vagina. Although not quite as sensitive as her clitoris it will give some variation to your oral sex technique. You can pay attention to these areas and just lightly touch the clitoris with your tongue just to tease her. But make sure you 'head' to the clitoris before long.

Experiment with your partner and encourage them to discuss your oral sex technique. Let them tell you what they like. Allow them to have total control of the oral sex you are giving them and you will soon discover how to take them to new heights of pleasure.

Oral sex is about giving. So pay close attention to your partners reaction to your technique and adapt accordingly. And never stop learning.