On this Valentines Day, is your relationship everything you want it to be? Are you both sensitive to each other's needs? Is your love unconditional? Do you still have Passion is your relationship? Let's take these questions one at a time.

1.Is your relationship ideal? If not, what makes it less?

Give this serious thought. Most likely you can fine tune your current relationship and make it more enjoyable. You must see yourself as worthy of love, and you must be willing to surrender to the relationship. You are limiting the beauty and depth of the relationship. And you are probably making it frustrating for both you and your partner. Create a supportive environment to talk with your partner about how your relationship can be ideal for you; speak clearly and from the heart. Remember to be still and listen with all your heart to your partner's description of what is ideal for her/him.

I suggest you say to your partner just before you go to sleep, such as Sweet heart, lets talk about our dreams and thoughts about our relationship and lets do it over a candlelit dinner. I believe you should make it romantic, make it special, make it a s relaxing as possible. I also suggest you both be very sensitive to each others sharing experiences, no interruptions, listen quietly, but with an open mind and heart. For example, you can say, I would really love to have us set aside one night a week as our special night together. Something I would look foreword to all week, knowing we will have this special time together to share and hold each other.
2. Are you both sensitive to each other's needs? The above example of special time together gives you the idea of how to approach your partner, with your needs, remember make it a suggestion not a demand. Explain to your partner your desires, your feelings, and then be quiet and listen deeply for his or her response, his/her concerns, and fears, ECT
. 3. Is your love unconditional? In others words, even if you are disagreeing, do separate your disagreement from how you feel about each other? Is your love deep and strong? Or do you make your disagreements personal? You should keep the perspective that "I may not like what we have disagreed about, but I still love my partner." Your partner must have the same perspective. I suggest you both agree never to go to bed mad or angry at each other.

4. Do you still have passion in your relationship? First you both must talk about your passion, what brought you together? How does the passion rise in each of you? Talk and listen to each other about this passion that each of you has for the other. Doing this will keep the passion alive in the relationship. By discussing these four questions with your partner, it will give you something special for valentine's day-a healthy and happy relationship.

Charles Lightwalker is a Metis Shaman, Medical Intuitive, Sound Healer, father and more :www.thefamilyoflight.com

(To contact this author, Email: charleslightwalker@yahoo.com)